"Maybe I'm the problem."
.....that's the most difficult sentence to accept.
I think It's easier to believe we've just been surrounded by the wrong people,wrong friends, wrong family and even wrong relationships.
Sometimes that's true, but other times....we're actually the problem.
Maybe we keep choosing people who keep proving they aren't good for us, we probably expect people to read minds instead of actually communicating.. .
We expect people to hold standards we don't even meet ourselves.
We've even become so focused on what others did to us that we've stopped asking what we're doing to ourselves.
Self reflection is sometimes uncomfortable.
Growth doesn't begin when everyone changes, It begins when we're honest enough to ask ourselves...
What part did I play?
And this is not in any way to blame ourselves or carry guilt for whatever went wrong but simply just to become a better version of who we are.
Well said❤️
Always check yourself!