Self Reflection

‎"Maybe I'm the problem."

‎.....that's the most difficult sentence to accept.

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‎I think It's easier to believe we've just been surrounded by the wrong people,wrong friends, wrong family and even wrong relationships.

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‎Sometimes that's true, but other times....we're actually the problem.

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‎Maybe we keep choosing people who keep proving they aren't good for us, we probably expect people to read minds instead of actually communicating.. .

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‎We expect people to hold standards we don't even meet ourselves.

‎We've even become so focused on what others did to us that we've stopped asking what we're doing to ourselves.

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‎Self reflection is sometimes uncomfortable.

‎Growth doesn't begin when everyone changes, It begins when we're honest enough to ask ourselves...

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‎What part did I play?

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‎And this is not in any way to blame ourselves or carry guilt for whatever went wrong but simply just to become a better version of who we are.

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